Sunday, March 21, 2010

How do you know its over (part1)

Basically, this is still just a theory that I have yet to confirm the actuality of it and whether or not it can be put in practice.

So, how do you know that your bf-gf relationship is over ? Easy. You just have to detect for the signals. These signals would also indicate that you, have to move on. Regardless of how challenging it's going to be.
  1. Your partner just don't call you anymore. No more text messages asking whether or not have you taken dinner, let alone to say you've been missed terribly.
  2. You are able to go out with a potential scandal of yours, without having your partner know about it. And the best part of it, you don't even have to try to hide it.
  3. When it's the sister, who called you up just to invite you to join the family's vacation, instead of your partner him/herself.
  4. Your partner isn't willing to come find you anymore when you are waayyy nearer to him when he used to be fine with having to go through 4 freaking hours of journey previously before you could finally meet up and spend time together.
  5. You just don't see your partner often anymore even when the distance now from your place to his/her place is only about 30 mins plus the traffic.
  6. He/ she just doesn't bother to call up and ask whether your car battery is fine and remind you not to forget to switch off the light again.
  7. He/ she could live knowing that you might be mentally and emotionally tortured with every actions he/ she's been taking and not doing anything about it.
  8. You find yourself recalling and thinking what actually went wrong.
  9. You would then start getting to the thinking where you should probably give up in waiting, and instead, you should start assuming that you're officially single when you certainly aren't.
  10. You start to feel like avoiding his/her family when previously, things went just fine between you and them.
  11. You start taking his name out of your daily conversation. You can hardly hear yourself mentioning his name and you will do everything in your power to refrain yourself from doing so.
  12. You start wanting to make yourself occupied with other things.
  13. You get obsessed over songs, be it motivating or demotivating ones. You have higher tendency to get carried away with the lyrics and not just that. You would take out the appropriate ones, and fit them in your situation. It's for the psychology purposes, it makes you feel somewhat composed.
  14. You have no particular someone no more to whine about how your day went.
  15. At one point, you just stop asking for opinions on how to fix your relationships. You decided to just shut up and keep everything to yourself just cos you don't wanna appear stupid and fragile.

It's definitely to be continued.



I'm a loser simply cos a non-loser-friend and another roommate of mine just told me that the hot air balloon exhibition is held only on this weekend.


3 comments:

susu said...

fatin!! i like!! struck straight to my heart.. duno y.. though i'm single..

miss fatino razano said...

haha! omg babe, you actually check out my blog? nice:)

Filzah.R said...

hahahahhahah speaking from your own experience haha xD
but yeah sadly true.
stupid guy.